Sorry for vanishing. My mother has been in the hospital, an hour away, so I have been pretty busy. She is out and doing better now though.
Still having things happen. While we were busy, we slacked off on the lavender and were not using it as much. We were sitting in the living room, and my diet pepsi just started to slide across my coffee table. It would slide a little, stop, and then slide a little. We were both just watching it, right in front of us.
Then one night we were in bed and asleep. Something woke me up and I heard "ghost" being whispered into my ear. At first I thought my fiance had seen something and was trying to wake me, but she was sound asleep. I lay in bed looking and then saw something. I leave the light on in my kitchen and even with the door shut, it shines through the cracks of my bedroom door. The light vanished as if something was blocking it and there is nothing in my house whatsoever that could have gotten between the light and my door on its own. I got out of bed, opened my door and saw a shadow shoot across the floor and vanish in my kitchen. I checked and the door opening didnt make it. 15 minutes later I was back in bed, still awake and looked at the wall by the door. There was a very detailed shadow of what looked like a teenage boy. This shadow was on the wall like a normal shadow of yourself, but the black shadows are not on walls, they can be in the middle of the floor, almost as if solid. I felt nothing bad from the boy and even wonder if he had not warned me something bad was here. I know I sound crazy, but this is what has been going on.
We got sidetracked on the sage as well with us being gone so much and need to try to get some in the next day or so. Tonight I saw a small white orb fly through the house, and into my living room. It seems to me the lavender works, but only makes things weaker, so too speak. Like the orbs are smaller & the shadow figures are not fully formed like before. Since using the lavender full force again, things have been not so active and do not seem to have that bad feeling like when we do not use it. A few other things happened, but nothing major since using the lavender like crazy again.